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by SPIKE
you think? i was gonna get her to join this too. thing is i have to tell you guys coz its me you know and you often help guide me in the right direction, or try to.

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Spike - I think Random has a huge point about not getting into too much detail on here. There's also the other big point that *if* you ever do get involved deeply with someone and they join the board they've only got to go through the majority of threads to see you discussing one *bird* or another along with the well-known *I'm in there* phrase

I guess its easy to get excited and want to share all the time, but just watch what you say

ok i have a reason to post about her now i think. i knew she was too perfect, she has 2 others guys after her too which she isn't sure who she likes i think one of them was this geezer who works with her i met, but she stills seems interested in me too so i'm slightly confused so guys what should i say to her in order to beat the other 2 guys? how about 'iof you don't go for me i don't mind as you make an excellent friend' which is true but i would mind

Dump her. Move on. Don't hang around looking like an idiot while she picks "the chosen one". Sorry if this sounds harsh, but I hate girls who do this (and before Y pops up I've not quite done this ). If she liked you that much in the first place she wouldn't look at other blokes. Sorry it's not working out the way you hoped

Agree with T hunny , one thing though
Did she tell you this ? cause if she did then even more so dump her , and make sure you tell her why , your not a lap dog to be left hanging around till she can be bothered to decide who she likes better

Um, she's only met him once hasn't she? Surely she's entitled to a bit of time to make her mind up? I mean, if she strings him along like that for a couple of months that's one thing but as a reaction to a first meeting it doesn't seem unreasonable... wouldn't you want to think for a while before getting involved with Spike?

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by Random
wouldn't you want to think for a while before getting involved with Spike?

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Now you've put it like that.............

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by Random
Um, she's only met him once hasn't she? Surely she's entitled to a bit of time to make her mind up? I mean, if she strings him along like that for a couple of months that's one thing but as a reaction to a first meeting it doesn't seem unreasonable... wouldn't you want to think for a while before getting involved with Spike?

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Yes she has , which is why I wondered if she told him that, But how long should someone wait , while someone decides wether your number one two or three ?
I know it's something we would all do but to tell them ??

i think its better to tell and am glad she did so i know i have competition and shes being honest with me from the start and shes not told the other 2 as far as i know. also she can't make it tomorrow as no money but she gets paid friday so i'm hoping next wednesday.

Well i say kill (or at the very least maim) the other 2 guys ,but that'd probably be against the law and she might object to it.
All kidding aside remember alls fair in love and war and all that clap trap.

Spike do you REALLY like her that much?? yeah ok shes entitled to choose but you DONT tell the people that you're choosing between,its like an unwritten rule, all shes done is try and make herself seem superior and left you on pins about wether you're going to be chosen (this aint pop idol boys and girls)! Shes already breaking dates with you! Im really sorry if i sound harsh (I've only had 2hrs sleep so I'm kinda grouchy ) but I think you could do soooooooooo much better and no one wants to see you get hurt. If you want to give her a chance then thats up to you but I think you should give it lots of thought*grumpy Eve steps off the soap box and goes back to bed*

xxxx

Good luck with her... you seem to really like her

Carpe Diem, Spike

Not Carpe Jugulum?

Carpe bosom, perhaps?

LOL, or indeed, cop a slap

*i think one of them was this geezer who works with her i met, but she stills seems interested in me too so i'm slightly confused*

OK, explain again exactly why you had to hang around her work all day, under the gaze of one of the guys she's not sure about her feelings for? And *how* creepy is that?

'Dodgy' gets my vote (but consult a 'lifer' before doing anything final )

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by Jango
OK, explain again exactly why you had to hang around her work all day, under the gaze of one of the guys she's not sure about her feelings for? And *how* creepy is that?

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ok i asked her and he isn't one of the guuys she likes thank god. so anyway i sent her these little hairband things today with kitty on them and i'm painting her which she said i could do so i'm hoping that may win her over.

Sweetie, desperation is NOT a turn on. Stop chasing about after her.

Well said T

I'M BACK!! women watch out coz SPIKES about! i've decided no point in feelnig sorry for myself, i'll keep the door open if shes interested, in the mean time i'm gonna carry on flirting and eying up other birds coz thats me