Hmm, my opinion? Leave it. Hes your mate and its not worth ruining a friendship over this, plus she'd then be long distance from you. If I was in the situation i'd probably be like you and i'd probably not listen to what i'm typing now. But maybe the best thing is to wait, if he doesn't seem interested in ehr and is not bothering then their relationship may soon end, so i'd give it a bit of time and wait. I mean lets say you did sleep with each other, she may still be madly in love with your mate and you in love with her, but then you'd never really get her love in return and be really hurt that she loves him. So jsut wait a while and see what happens
A boring thread about me, a girl and my mate
This is a long story and i need to vent so bear with me (i 'm still kinda drunk from last night so excuse the poor grammer and rantyness). Ok so i was supposed to be travelling america just now, but i came home, after some family probs came up. I was due to be staying with a my mates very hot, funny, with just a hint of geek, long distnace girl friend (dont ask) in Boston for a week but stayed only 2 days. Anyway i really like her and we get on great. My friend never phones, emails or writes to her, and she was getting very upset. So last night when we were speaking on the phone she said i was great fun and pretty much implied she would have slept with me had i been able to stay on, which would have been so good. The she said her b/f had cancelled his visit during the uni holidays in Oct to her and was thinkingtelling him to do one. So i was like "yes" (bit bad i know) maybe she'll, you know, fall for mr sensitive me. But she was so happy that he might be able to go see her at christmas time and couldnt stop talking about him and it was killing me listen to her talk about him, and how much "excited" he made. And i just wish it was me she was talking about mr unappreciative
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he obviously doesnt treat her right or she wouldnt have contemplated sleeping with someone else especially one of his friends, if you really like her keep an eye on the situation and see what happens mayeb she'll realise he aint that in love with her and just happy to have her there when he wants and she'll consider finishing it then you can step in okay thats probably bad advise maybe you should tell him she's been upset by the lack of communication and thats one of the main things a relationship is built on and give them the chance to try again properly then if it doesnt work out you can step in
im not good with advise today. sorry.
im not good with advise today. sorry.
Getting it on with a mate's girlfriend isn't a good idea. I'd just wait in the wings and see what happens. I'm in a similar situation just now(although theres other things which mean it'll never happen) but I couldn't cheat on a mate like that.
I've seen it done and it just causes a mess and relationships formed like that don't work out.
On a side-note...Spike giving relationship advice *thud*
I've seen it done and it just causes a mess and relationships formed like that don't work out.
On a side-note...Spike giving relationship advice *thud*
by Milky
On a side-note...Spike giving relationship advice *thud*
i KNOW! and it's good advice too maybe that Dartford Water DID make a difference SPIKE just not the difference pimpdaddy was expecting.
(Edited by bipolar 10/06/2003 14:19)
"We've all gotta have sex together"
by Biff
Yeah i best bide my time i think, its all a bit Pearl Harbour really or Chasing Amy.
(sorry if that's a bit insensitive don't mean it that way
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