Charisma.

Looks fade, money is spent.

I'm too shallow to make a decision. Money is probably on the bottom of the list, but only just.....

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by Teresa
I'm too shallow to make a decision. Money is probably on the bottom of the list, but only just.....

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Kinda the same here to be honest

As someone with all three... Oh leave me alone, someone had to say it... it might as well have been me

I think that in truth it's compatability of charisma. I feel pretty much that I'm seeing someone "out of my league" I'm nothing special to look at, I've piled on a few pounds lately and she knows guys who make 3 or 4 times what I do in a year, but for some reason she seems to think I'm pretty special (and no, not in a "needs" way)

Overall I think that most women find guys with charisma most attractive.

Whether that charisma comes from a good sence of humour, a caring nature or the confidence instilled by huge wads of cash, a handsome face and a perfect bod is another thing altogether.




(Edited by MonSTeR 21/11/2003 20:09)

I'd say Looks.

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by SPIKE
I'd say Looks.

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What a shocker

Well first you have the ladies post, honest if nothing else.
Then you have Monster's post, beautifully constructed, then you have Spike, need I say more?


but, and tis a big butt (no making your own jokes here thanks)

Looks - the most gorgeous guy/woman, but broke and dead boring?

Charisma - a skint quasimodo?

Money - a butt ugly boring partner?

and how would you define your chosen characteristic?

I guess I'm just looking for tips hints or tricks to make me more appealing to the opposite sex, not sure which sex that would be, but if I ever work it out!!

I think personality is deffinately the most important thing, But i like looks a lot cuz i'm an artist sorta and therefore admmire the female form greatly and she would therefore be a piece of art herself which i'm very much into, thats why I chose looks

(Edited by SPIKE 21/11/2003 20:51)

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by SPIKE
But i like looks a lot cuz i'm an artist

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So, in English, you're a perv

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by SPIKE
thats why I chose looks

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And why you don't have a girlfriend

Love ya really

MonSTeR, I think your very sweet post goes a long way to tell you why she's with you.


*having awww aren't all the couples so sweet moment*

I think it has to be charisma for me. I know lots of really good looking guys but they can be complete idiots and treat people badly. It's nice to be attracted to someone for no obvious reason to anyone else but you can feel it. (Plus some people who are very charismatic are pretty damn good looking too)

As for money - yes I need it but it wouldn't make me go out with someone.

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by TNT
Well first you have the ladies post, honest if nothing else.
Then you have Monster's post, beautifully constructed, then you have Spike, need I say more?


but, and tis a big butt (no making your own jokes here thanks)

Looks - the most gorgeous guy/woman, but broke and dead boring?

Charisma - a skint quasimodo?

Money - a butt ugly boring partner?

and how would you define your chosen characteristic?

I guess I'm just looking for tips hints or tricks to make me more appealing to the opposite sex, not sure which sex that would be, but if I ever work it out!!

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Well if ya put it that way [Abba]Money Money Money[/Abba]
After all if I'm gonna be with someone either ugly or boring at least with Money I can still go out and have a good time *Shallow much*

But then I'm lucky cause the love of my life is just perfect so I really don't have to choose.

I'd probably say Charisma *cough* Carpenter *cough*

Seriously though I'd say charisma. A girl with a nice personality means that even though she may not be the prettiest to look at, her personality gives her a quality which makes her more attractive. I usually find that the prettiest girls are usually the nastiest, the ones who feel that every guy should fancy them and that treat people like crap and I'd rather not go out with someone like that. Money to me aint a big issue as you can have more fun curled up on the sofa watching a film with someone you care about than racing around town flashing the cash.

Just my two pence...still haven't found anyone like that though

Money's not an issue as I've always managed to scrap up enough in the past to do whatever I wanted & I hate borrowing money off people, so wouldn't ask him/her to pay for anything I wouldn't be paying equal for myself.

I would like to say "Charisma! No contest!", but I'm shallow enough that I'd at least like something nice to catch my eye

But, charisma would be at the top of the list I guess.
I mean, I get bored very easily anyway, so someone to keep me entertained is always a bonus

(Edited by Taz 22/11/2003 13:12)

Well, my list would be headed with intelligence, but if thats not an option i'll go with charisma. I have nothing against looks and money, but would hate to spend much time with someone who only had them - i'd get very bored indeed

Hmmmm, this is actually quite difficult. i fell in love with Maff's persnality definately (puke), but i wouldn't have been attracted to him in the first place if i didn't like the way he looks. so both of those are important, unless you're friends with the person first, never thought about it going further, then all of a sudden it happens. looks probably wouldn't matter in that case. money on the other hand doesn't bother me one bit. they can be filthy rich or selling big issues, i don't think that matters.

I think theres a lot more to people than those 3 things, but then again im not that shallow

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by JtB
I think theres a lot more to people than those 3 things

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Absolutely. Like musical preference. Surely that's the most important thing in any relationship!