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And even worse, it was at a Chelsea player!
And even worse, it was at a Chelsea player!
I'm not at all shocked, sad as that is. I think we've come to a point where people at least realize it's not acceptable language to use in public, whereas years ago, people said that word outright and weren't the least bit embarrassed or bothered by what they said. But I still believe many people harbor those racist feelings and use that type of language casually when they're among friends, family, coworkers with whom they feel they can say these things without being criticized. You and I may not use that word, or have friends who do, but I think it's more common than we'd like to believe.
by Byron
I'm saddened, if not shocked, that racist language this vile is still used so casually...
by Avenger
And will it be a sign that we have moved on as a society when someone can use words denoting skin colour as adjectives in the same way as people commonly use 'fat', 'blond', etc?
I personally dont use the word nor like it, but its intresting that its perfectly acceptable for rap artists to use in their songs.
by Kate
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To be fair, though, ol' Ron didn't say black.. whatever. He used the N word, which is not an adjective, it's just foul
I have a black friend (don't we all have black/ gay/ Jewish whatever friends when there's a subject like this ) who says that he can use the N word when talking about himself or his friends but to hear a white person say it is insulting.
by JtB
but its intresting that its perfectly acceptable for rap artists to use in their songs.
I find that it is just as racist to say that a black person can say something but a white person cant.
by Teresa
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I have a black friend (don't we all have black/ gay/ Jewish whatever friends when there's a subject like this ) who says that he can use the N word when talking about himself or his friends but to hear a white person say it is insulting.
To quote Chris Rock: "It's okay for me to say it, it's not okay for you to say it." A person who's the intended target of an abusive term subverting it for their own ends is, to my mind, acceptable. As, though you have to be a darn sight more careful, is any person. The word "nigger" is just that, a word: it's the intent that does harm, and that's decided by how it's delivered, and who's delivering it.
by JtB
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I find that it is just as racist to say that a black person can say something but a white person cant.
The reclaiming arguement doesnt hold much water for me and is encouraging the continued use of these words.
You're right, any prejudice is bad, but some do a lot more damage than others. There didn't used to be signs saying "No dogs, no Irish, no lardies", neither did a Tory candidate stand in the 1964 Sedgewick by-election with the slogan "If you want a ginga for a neighbour, vote Labour". Which doesn't make one sort right, just not as vile as the other. I don't think it's hypocritical, but harm assessment.
by Avenger
I have a little bit of a problem with this.
I have never used the word in question and if someone used it in a conversation with me I would be shocked. My initial reaction was much like Sydney's.
However, it strikes me a potentially hypocritical that we react like this to a description of someone's skin colour, when we would not necesarily in other cases.
If a similar comment were made by a black commentator referring to a white player, would the outcome have been the same - maybe, but I'm not sure.
If the player had been openly gay and the comment centred on that, would the outcome have been the same? - again it's possible, but I'm not sure it's so clearcut.
If the comment had centred on the fact that the player was fat, or had ginger hair, would the outcome have been the same? - certainly not.
Why is it that some skin colours are much more taboo to use as pejorative descriptions than other skin colours or other physical features? Is it because there has been historically and exists now more prejudice (at least in the Western world) based on those skin colours and we therefore don't wish to associate ourselves with this actual discrimination that we see. And will it be a sign that we have moved on as a society when someone can use words denoting skin colour as adjectives in the same way as people commonly use 'fat', 'blond', etc?
This statement I agree with completely. The only problem I see here is that it's hard to determine what exactly the intent was. Especially when most of us have only the newspaper report to go on. It's always dificult to determine someone's meaning through the written word (which has been the cause of some arguments on this board).
by Byron
The word "nigger" is just that, a word: it's the intent that does harm, and that's decided by how it's delivered, and who's delivering it.
I'm guessing it's because few people have ever been regarded as suitable to keep as slaves purely because of their hair colour, or sexual inclination. Whatever the justification for slavery among Africans, or in ancient Rome, whites who kept black slaves based their situation on the supposed inferiority of the 'negro'. That's why any white person (and lightskinned black, occasionally) gets in trouble for using the 'N' word.
by Avenger
I have a little bit of a problem with this.
I have never used the word in question and if someone used it in a conversation with me I would be shocked. My initial reaction was much like Sydney's.
However, it strikes me a potentially hypocritical that we react like this to a description of someone's skin colour, when we would not necesarily in other cases.
If a similar comment were made by a black commentator referring to a white player, would the outcome have been the same - maybe, but I'm not sure.
If the player had been openly gay and the comment centred on that, would the outcome have been the same? - again it's possible, but I'm not sure it's so clearcut.
If the comment had centred on the fact that the player was fat, or had ginger hair, would the outcome have been the same? - certainly not.
Why is it that some skin colours are much more taboo to use as pejorative descriptions than other skin colours or other physical features?