Big, big *hugs* to everyone here.
I recognise a lot of things about me in your posts, things I didn't say in mine though I could have done. I've learned, if not to love myself, at least to get along with me, but it's a hard road.
And with the paranoia: yes! This is it, and part of why I feel I don't make friends. Because I still find it hard to believe people like me But I know now that there *are* people who like me (my fiance, my brother, my dog) and that helps.
Also, I'd like to say that all of the people who've said here that they have problems liking themselves are people I've seen here and thought seemed among the most sincere and likeable people on the site
(Edited by White Hart 15/03/2002 08:48)
I recognise a lot of things about me in your posts, things I didn't say in mine though I could have done. I've learned, if not to love myself, at least to get along with me, but it's a hard road.
And with the paranoia: yes! This is it, and part of why I feel I don't make friends. Because I still find it hard to believe people like me But I know now that there *are* people who like me (my fiance, my brother, my dog) and that helps.
Also, I'd like to say that all of the people who've said here that they have problems liking themselves are people I've seen here and thought seemed among the most sincere and likeable people on the site
(Edited by White Hart 15/03/2002 08:48)