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If she's that much of a problem and threatening you Spike - why don't you report her to the Police?
Posted: 20:28 Mar 30 2002
stalker
ok remember that dat i ahd and it didn't work out, well she kept giving me death threats and whatever, i've now found out shes in stevenage trying to track me down 
i was gonna go to this cool rock pub as my mate steves here for the weekend and my other mates won't go there, so i then get message on my phone from her telling me shes there waiting for me. i mean for what possible reason would she come to this dump of a town for? i am gonig nowhere near that pub tonight and i hope i don't see her, i'll have to run.
i was gonna go to this cool rock pub as my mate steves here for the weekend and my other mates won't go there, so i then get message on my phone from her telling me shes there waiting for me. i mean for what possible reason would she come to this dump of a town for? i am gonig nowhere near that pub tonight and i hope i don't see her, i'll have to run.
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Posted: 20:28 Mar 30 2002 Or, be brave, and stand up to her. Say maybe it's better if you spend time apart, or a less polite version
by SPIKE
i'll have to run.
Because you should never let anyone make you feel uncomfortable hon
Hope she back off soon..... you chick magnet
Posted: 20:59 Mar 30 2002 
I agree. If this is such a problem, then you really need to sort it out.
by Jola
If she's that much of a problem and threatening you Spike - why don't you report her to the Police?
Posted: 22:43 Mar 30 2002 
Y'know, this kind of reminds me of a hoax a work colleague played on a mate many years ago... Does your 'ex' always contact you by text?
by SPIKE
so i then get message on my phone from her telling me shes there waiting for me.
Posted: 22:49 Mar 30 2002 I think I'm with Jola on this one Spike.
by Jola
If she's that much of a problem and threatening you Spike - why don't you report her to the Police?
Posted: 08:33 Mar 31 2002
nah i'm not gonna call the police over some woman following me or whatever. anyway thank go i didn't see ehr anywhere last night i'm hoping she may get the message that i really don't wanna see her again.
Posted: 12:38 Mar 31 2002
oh god this is getting worse, she jsut txt me saying she saw meggido and her best mate and her are good mates with the elad singer. hmmm and guess who the lead singer is? only my future brother in law :O god help me
Posted: 13:26 Mar 31 2002
Okay, re my earlier query, do know absolutely for certain that the person texting you is the same person you went out on a date with? Did your date ever speak to you by phone, for example, using the same number? If not, begin by suspecting future brother in law...
Posted: 13:33 Mar 31 2002 yep spoke to her by phone many times and its her number. however i think i told her the lead singer was my sisters fiance maybe shes palying with my head, i'll find out when i see him next.
by Joe
Okay, re my earlier query, do know absolutely for certain that the person texting you is the same person you went out on a date with? Did your date ever speak to you by phone, for example, using the same number? If not, begin by suspecting future brother in law...
Posted: 13:41 Mar 31 2002
I'd still nip it in the bud Spike.
1) Have a word and tell her if she doesn't stop you WILL go to the police.
2) Then go to the Police anyway
I certainly wouldn't put up with that sort of bahaviour and be made to feel uncomfortable.
1) Have a word and tell her if she doesn't stop you WILL go to the police.
2) Then go to the Police anyway
I certainly wouldn't put up with that sort of bahaviour and be made to feel uncomfortable.
Posted: 14:21 Mar 31 2002 
Get aggressive, tell her to get lost. If she does'nt get the message then sort her out!
Posted: 20:11 Mar 31 2002
Good Luck with this Spike...I too think that you should get agressive! Don' let her muck you around like this
Be a man !
Be a man !
Posted: 22:32 Mar 31 2002 Well, I'm inclined to think that it's her then, but if you haven't rung her back (if only to say 'what's the crack?'), then best do so, if only to check that she hasn't loaned the phone to a sympathetic wind-up merchant (I'm going to be consistently paranoid on this one, just so all the bases are covered
by SPIKE
yep spoke to her by phone many times and its her number. however i think i told her the lead singer was my sisters fiance maybe shes palying with my head, i'll find out when i see him next.
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Posted: 23:31 Mar 31 2002
I think my advice would be to be firm, but not offensive. Call her up and tell her that you don't want to have any contact with her any more, you're sorry if you gave the wrong impression but you aren't interested and that's your final word. Then leave it there. Keep the conversation as brief as you can and just say what you need to say.
If she continues harrassing you, get in touch with the police. They'll most likely give her a warning, which should put a stop to it.
Good luck
If she continues harrassing you, get in touch with the police. They'll most likely give her a warning, which should put a stop to it.
Good luck
Posted: 12:37 Apr 01 2002 
Nothing wrong with covering all the angles. I tend to agree, either she's being overly agressive or a mate is. Either way you need to get something sorted otherwise you're going to keep looking over your shoulder or not bothering to go out at all because you'll get yourself so paranoid of bumping into her and her friends.
by Joe
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if you haven't rung her back then best do so, if only to check that she hasn't loaned the phone to a sympathetic wind-up merchant (I'm going to be consistently paranoid on this one, just so all the bases are covered
Posted: 15:02 Apr 01 2002
So did you work out if it was her or someone playing tricks, Spike?
I find that if you ignore people, they usually go away - eventually. Otherwise, the agressive approach will convince them
I find that if you ignore people, they usually go away - eventually. Otherwise, the agressive approach will convince them
Posted: 14:18 Apr 02 2002