Real maybe, but still unhealthy and just plain wrong. This was brought home to me in the scene in the Bronze, where he plays on the distance Buffy feels from her friends, and encourages it. Not nice at all.
by Red
I'm starting to sense a *real* relationship developing between Buffy and Spike (they can 'feel' each other's presence now. Ok, he's a vamp, but still ... shows a certain depth to things, growing slowly, albeit unwanted by Buffy).
Still, a toss-up with OMWF for my favourite ep of the season.